So I kept track of my spending for thirty days.
Broken Piggy Bank by Veronika Nagy.
At the end of the month, I tallied up my numbers into categories. I used the following list (which I've only slightly revised 13 years later) from the non-profit credit counseling service I went to, and found it helpful and pretty thorough. Feel free to delete categories you don't need or add categories that aren't already on the list.
Two points: (1) This is a
monthly expenses worksheet. So if you spend about $250 on holiday gifts in December, divide $250 by 12 months and enter $21 for holiday gifts in the appropriate place. Do the same for any annual/semi-annual expense, such as car license/registration or eye exam/teeth cleaning. (2) At the time, I used another worksheet to calculate my debt repayment from a list of all my debts. However, I've included a line entry for minimum credit card payment because that may be one of your basic monthly expenses if, like most of us, you have some credit card debt.

Okay, so here's the list:
Basic Living ExpensesHousing
1. Rent/Mortgage
2. Oil
3. Gas/Electric
4. Water/Sewer
5. Garbage pick-up
6. Basic Telephone
7. Basic Cable
8. Property Taxes
9. Property/Renters Insurance
10. Maintenance
Food
11. Groceries (incl. cleaning supplies and paper goods)
12. Lunches (work and school)
13. Pet food and litter
Dependent/Child Care
14. Alimony & Child Support
15. Babysitter/Day care
Transportation
16. Car payment(s)
17. Gasoline
18. Car maintenance/repairs
19. License/registration
20. Car insurance
21. Parking
22. Commuting costs
Medical/Dental
23. Insurance Premium/Deductible
24. Doctor/Therapist/Optometrist
25. Dentist
26. Prescriptions/Medications
Insurance
27. Life/(whole/term)
Clothing
28. Family Clothes
29. Uniforms (work/school)
30. Laundry/Dry Cleaning
Education
31. Educational Debt
Debts/Taxes/Fines/Surcharges
32. IRS or other
33. Fines, tickets, etc.
34. Credit card minimum monthly payment(s)
35. Any other
Subtotal of Basic Living Expenses: _____________
Non-Basic ExpensesA. Tuition
B. Hair Care/Cosmetics/Toiletries
C. Cell phone
D. Books/Newspapers/Magazines/Subscriptions
E. Tobacco
F. Liquor/Beer/Wine/Soda
G. Movies/Concerts/Plays/Videos/DVDs
H. Dinners Out
I. Dues/Memberships
J. Donations (religious/charity)
K. Gifts (birthdays/holidays)
L. Children’s allowance
M. Pet care/veterinary
N. Lottery
O. Hobbies/Lessons
P. Vacations
Q. Other (in my case, I had bank fees and had used an accountant to help me with my taxes in this particular year)
Subtotal of Non-Basic Expenses: __________
Total Monthly Expenses (Basic + Non-Basic): ____________
Total Monthly Income: _______________
Total Monthly Expenses: _______________
Monthly Excess/Deficit (Monthly Income minus Monthly Expenses): _______________
Be sure that your monthly income is based on what actually comes in -- not on what you
think you
might make. Be honest--both about what you spend and about what you earn. Once you are totally honest with yourself, everything else begins to fall into place.

At the O'Kitten household, we've been using the same basic format for about six years now. This month, our plan looks like this:
1/14 - 2/10/09 [I put in the dates so that we know exactly the period the plan covers]
Rent/Utilities (total 954.86):
Rent: 722.11
Electric: 65.00
Gas: 15.00
Phone/cable/internet bundle: 135.00
Renter's insurance: 17.75
Medical (total 290.00):
Medication: 140.00
Therapist/Doctor Co-pays: 150.00
Grocery (total 280.00):
4 weeks at $65/wk: 260.00
Cat food and litter: 20.00
Other (total 282.00):
Transportation/Metro Card: 20.00
Debt repayment: 262.00
Total expenses: 1806.86
Total income: 1814.00
Total expenses: 1806.86
Monthly income minus monthly expenses = 7.14
And remember--it's
just money. A lot of days I have had to repeat to myself: "For today, I have everything I need." Try not to fret over the past or worry about the future, but
stay in today.
Drawing by Jim Doran.